Feeling Stressed Out

So we lost the baby almost a month ago. Tom gets laid off the next week after we lose the baby. I am feeling stressed out, because unemployment will not start to payout for 8 to 12 weeks from the date filled. Wow 2 to 3 months a lot can go wrong in that time. Tom has applied and applied to at least over 100 jobs. Nothing has come up yet. I know its because a lot of people who are just or more qualified people are applying to those same jobs. Its very disheartenning to know he's trying soo hard and nothing is coming his way. We have discussed some of the very real and hard decisions we may have to make. Tom and I will do what we have to survive and be able to have a future with children and a house and so on. We have a plan and we know if things start to get worse what we will do. I just feel so lost and helpless to change what is happening. I feel like our world is spinning out of control and headed for a black hole. I will not let us go into that black hole, we will do what we have to as unpleasant and unhappy as they maybe but we have to survive this,