Miscarriage.

Unfortunately we have had a miscarriage at 11 weeks. I think what is soo hard about this is we were almost 3 months along. I spent all of Monday night in the ER. The doctor had an ultra sound done on me and he said that there was no yolk sack and that the baby was malformed and did not have a heartbeat. I am of course devastated he said its nothing we did or could have prevented. But I am still upset, I understand that this is not my fault. It still doesn't make the pain go away, the doctor said its just usually women miscarry before they know they are pregnant or right after they find out, its just unfortunate this went on for so long. So know I have cried and will cry again. The hardest part is the after math I will spear the gory details but its really hard to have to know that's your baby coming out and you just have to deal with it. I know this is Gods plan, and I know God will give us a baby. Its just hard to cope with it all right now. Thank God for my wonderful family and friends who are there for Tom and I at this hard time in our lives. We love you.