Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Things I know!!!

So this is my first "bloging" hummm, so I think I'm just going to start off with something I know to be true for me. I hope you all enjoy my blog.



1. I know that there are a select few who I trust completely.



2. I know that some people in my life are really not worth my time and effort.



3. I know that I have some hard decisions to make about a few of the people in my life.



4. I know that I am not responsible for others misgivings and misfortunes, nor will I own them.



5. I know that I want a baby, its just a matter of when, and that I will not bow down to others views or opinions of my "correct" time.



6. I know that I expect more of others because I would do the same for them. I also know that I can not expect everyone to have the same values as I do and I need to learn to deal with it.



7. I have learned that I need to demand more respect from the people in my life or else they can leave my life.



8. I have learned that I view family as something very different from most of my family. I guess I am old fashioned that way. I need to learn that I can not change how things are, that is how it is in my family and that's how it always will be. I need to be okay with this fact.



9. I have learned that family isn't always blood, that sometimes its friends that are better then your "actual" family.



10. I know that I have awesome parents and I would be no where in this life without them.



11. I know that my husband is one of the the greatest men I have ever known and he loves me no matter what and always supports me in everything I do.



12. I know that I need to end some relationships and cultivate others.



13. I know that there are some people who I have to deal with that no matter how nice, or sweet I am they will never like me. Nor with I ever be good enough, I need to be okay with this and learn to stand up to them.



14. I know that I am such a different person then I was when I went to high school, that some times it scares me. I also know that some people will always see me the way I was, and if the can not see the "new" me then let them believe what they want. I will never be able to change their minds.



15. I know that some people drift out of your life, only to drift back in a couple of years later, when things have changed.



16. I know that I am a good person, friend and daughter. I need to remember these things as to NEVER let someone tell me other wise.



These are just some of the things I know in this life for me, I'm sure there will be more to come.................................

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